Saturday, December 3, 2011

Are you ready for marriage?

Now not marrying is not an option in India,  so be sure on that one day you have to marry if you are not anti social. But then when is the right time and more importantly when am i Ready is the correct question?
The amount of stress and pain i took in deciding it i dont want anyone of you take it, thats why i decided in my own small way if i can be of any help to anybody on this earth, then me suffering such a problem will be worth it.'
Litarally i took up every stupid quiz that is there on internet to find out if i am ready for marriage which of course dint help. If you think of it this doubt come when we are not sure of the person we are going to get married. I am a very practical person, though i was deeply and madly in love with this guy i was not sure if this love will remain.

All the worlds answers can be found within you that is what i concluded. There is a simple way to take a decision. In this system you have to use your Head and your Heart both that will only give birth to a smart decision.

Ask your Head
  • Am i meeting the Real need
  • Am i informing myself of the options
  • Am i thinking it through
Ask your Heart
  • Does my decision show i am honest to myself
  • Does it show i trust my intution
  • Does it show that i deserve the best